Why do some people think that a wife cheating on her husband is worst than a husband cheating on his wife?
Tο mе іt’s equally incorrect bυt I һаνе bееח reading different sites аbουt cheating spouses аחԁ wһеח іt comes tο tһе spouse cheating tһеу didn’t mаkе іt seem ѕο tеrrіbƖе bυt wһеח іt came tο tһе wife cheating іt mаԁе һеr seem Ɩіkе a horrible disrespectful person. Bυt tһеу both аrе! I don’t bе wіtһ уου!
Jenni
Perhaps it’s since of the REASONS why husbands cheat vs wives. Typically when men cheat it’s more about the sex. Guy on a affair trip who just can’t pass up the hot chick in the hotel bar who’s up for a small action. But when wives cheat on their husbands, it’s rarely JUST about the sex. It’s more about the lack of a tie they have with their husbands, and the tie they’ve urban with somebody else. A lot simpler for a wife to forgive a spouse for the nameless weirder he had a one night stand with while on a place on top in Dallas TX, than it is for a spouse to forgive his wife for the 9 month affair she’s had!
Man can do whatever thing
Huovi
since some people still judge that a woman is not equal to man
and she has a pussy
HIFK
I’m guilty of thinking that too about a woman cheating being worse. Why I don’t know. I just do. I do feel and know that it’s incorrect for a man to cheat, but for some reason it seems worse for a woman to cheat. Maybe since I reckon a woman has something that is incredibly unique and belongs to only their spouse. Same thing for a man too but it just seems that the woman is seen as more “pure” than a man. I don’t be with you why I feel this way, but I do.
Jonne
You are right, they both are, but it has been a long tradition that women have been looked down upon if they were loose with their morals and it seems it continues. I would guess one of the huge reasons that may have started was since if she got pregnant she would disgrace the family. Again, the guy wansn’t to be blamed here, for years ago it was her word hostile to his. Now we can prove it but the thinking is still a small behind in being paid this right.
Juuso
men don’t grasp what they take home they end up being paid it back 10 fold
the men can take presents to the wife , but if the wife takes presents to the spouse the spouse has a harder time give reasons for how the other person got presents and he didn’t know about it.
Juice
It’s just the way the upper classes looks at things.
Heidi
I agree that they are both equally incorrect, but in answer to your inquiry, why I judge the upper classes as a whole believes it’s worse for the woman to cheat. Women have a trend to get far more emotionally involved with who they are cheating with then men. Men usually just grab a wham bam thank you ma’am and go back home to their wife and forget about side girl until next time he sees her. The emotonal involvement causes a woman to dwell on the man 24/7 and it does more hurt to the marriage even before it’s exposed. I could be incorrect but that is my opinion.
Hietalahti
It all goes back in description to those two ill fated words… Double values.
For years women have been 2nd class citizens. Just recently got the right to vote and all that jazz…They still are not treated as equals in any part of life really. When men date around, they are studs. Women who date around are whores.. It’s a sad small world we live in, isn’t it?
Hanski
i reckon both are equally terrible and horrible but in our people the women really do have more strength and power to control her self then the man dose and if she is doing that cheating i mean then that means she is not pleased with what her spouse is giving her and she dosent like him so why not end the whole thing???
Heinonen
It is just the age ancient mind-set of the the upper classes. Cheating is painful and incorrect no matter who does it. Most societies in the world were patriarchial till recent. Though we say culture has enlightened us, women have come a long way and men are still jacket behind. The just can accept that they can play around but their woman cant.
Filppula
This is the difference linking woman and man. Men always the world over thinks they are super can do lot of wrongs but women cannot / not allowed.Cheating is one of these .
Hannula
Assess. It is equally incorrect. I don’t reckon people should judge cheating by there sex. Whether there female or male, it’s unfaithful. There are some sick people out there..
Saikkonen
Me either. One is no better than the other. Oh of course there’s the age-ancient excuse of “men have certain *needs*” implying of course that women don’t have the same needs. Bullshit is what it is.
Jalasjärvi
To many men hold on to the ancient fashion thought that “It’s a mans world.” A woman’s place is no longer just in the kitchen any longer. I agree that we should be equal to cheating just like a man. Maybe some day equal rights will contain equal thinking, but I doubt it.
Häggman
They don’t.
They reckon that somehow he was abusing or ignoring her, so she had a right to cheat.
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Haajanen
Its since men are allowed to have manifold wives and that is okay but women are not allowed to have manifold husbands. A woman is a whore when she sleeps with another man while married.
Harry
I agree its equally incorrect. But women are still seen as the main care givers and are still seen to have less sex drive and more control over it. Thus making them more “guilty”.
Jaakko
MY FIRST ANSWER:- since men know and they agree they are ass holes when it comes to sexual intentions; at the same time they inherently know women are stuck-up and decent species and they cant tolerate when such an expected decent woman does such cheats.. MY OTHER ANSWER IS EQUALLY SIMPLE:- its male dominated the upper classes since adam ! MY FINAL ANSWER IS MUCH BETTER:- the answer to your inquiry will be clear by this inquiry “Why is it always that after an prohibited defenseless interaction, the woman only has to pop the b control pills ? ” Cheer up Dee
.. if you are not allowed to do something incorrect, it means you are privileged to be more reliable
If you again question why should woman be more reliable, see while wife is moving its ok for the spouse to run around and jump here and there and drink this and that…but NO for the wife…she should take care of the future of the world.
Julin
It’s just like when men sleep around they’re called a “ladies man” or a “bachelor”. When women do it they’re called “sluts”.
I reckon it goes back to the traditional roles that men and women have been placed into since the admittance of time, even going back to caveman times. Males are held to spread their seed and females are held to stay home and raise the offspring.
Humans are the only species that are monogamous, but there’s still that gene in most males that has them always looking for more. Nowadays it’s nearly expected of men to cheat or have a roving eye.
But women are held to be the caretakers of the family, so when they cheat it disrupts the whole order of things. I’m not saying genetics are an excuse to cheat, but I reckon that’s where it all stems from…what makes it more “conventional” for a man to stray.
Helminen
it is all the same incorrect. but just like with teachers and students if the teacher is the male it always seems like it is worse. One of those things where she is the one that could get into vex things i guess.
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