What does a dream about your boyfriend cheating on you mean?
Jacky_ch asked:
I have a few question i needed to know:
1) What does a dream about your boyfriend cheating on you mean?
2) If you ask your boyfriend “if you gave him a chance to cheat would he” and his answer was i don’t know?
3) If you feel so insecure about yourself because your afraid he might cheat on you?
4) If you had a feeling he cheated on you before but you dont really know if it is true?
5) How do you know if he wants to spend his life with you or if he is just using you?
I think your paranoid…
u really don’t trust this guy
it doenst mean anything (i have a few sometimes), but dont “completely” doubt it. It just means that your suspicous of him…
that means he doesnt care enough about you if he said he doesnt know.
Feeling insecure can cause A LOT of problems and its best to try not to feel that way.
Well the way i see it he just wants to be with you “at the moment” and doesnt want a serious relationship, but then again maybe you could be paranoid right now.
You shouldn’t over-react about it because this happened to me about 2 weeks ago. It’s just a dream,carry on with it.
1) it means dat ur suspicious about ur boyfriend, but it’s not telling u dat he really is..
2) .. um;; dun ask him dat
3) u should trust dat he loves u,, like u love him
4) u’ll find out eventually.. when he says that “you are the best” it means there isn’t only u dat he’s dating
5) don’t think about the future, just live in the mommment..
if you really asked the guy “if you ever had the chance to cheat on me” and his answers is IDK. then there’s something wrong right there, if he doesn’t want to cheat with you, he would straightly come out and say no i don’t want to. i think it’d be best for you to leave him, us girl’s have this sick gut feeling for a reason when a guy’s cheating on us, so use this an advantage for life.
Why indulge with a boyfriend who might cheat on you. The message of the dream is very clear. Simply by asking… you may never get the truth! The truth always lay in the eyes of the beholder. Read the eyes of your boyfriend… you would come to know of the truth! Why settle with a boyfriend who is not trustworthy?
Either you trust one or not! Think of it seriously. Introspect and arrive at a decision. Your future depends upon it… do not be careless in taking vital decisions affecting your life! The voice of your soul atman that seems to come from within our heart will tell the truth. More on Life-
Firstly…
I think questions 2,3,4 and 5, were the cause of number 1 !
Q2 : A dedicated partner woud say NO without hesitation.
Q3 : If someone is going to cheat, they will! and ur jealousy will help
drive them to it,
Q4 : And u never will know! but just drive urself crazy wondering, gut
feelings are usually right, but ur reactions a just plain paranoia!
Q5 : Because he wont do No.2,
U dont feel No.3
and have no reason to suspect No.4
Look everyone feels jealous and insecure at some point but trust me, the ONLY defence u have against being cheated on is trusting ur judgement on the person. Nothing YOU do or say will prevent it happening if its going to.
As soon as u start showing jealousy, questioning or accusing someone, then its the beginning of the end.
Hold your head up, be affectionate, cheery, and the best Girlfriend ever, and he wont want to loose u.
Be an accusing, depressing grumpy faced complainer, and he’ll only start no notice how happy, friendly and up-beat OTHER girls are!
Don’t you know honey. These dreams are real. They are so real, that once it happened to my boyfriend. He told me he thought I was cheating on him in his dream, and I actually was. And he saw that I was gonna dump him for the guy, and I was. So honey, your boyfriend is cheating on you! Dump him!
Dreams are sometimes meant as answers. I get dreams alot that happen within a month later. Hun, if u feel like the boy is cheating and you get dreams about it, I’m sorry to say, It might not work out for you and him. Have you tried talking to him? if not, do this. Call the radio station HOT 995. and ask them to be on an episode of war of the roses. It’s basically putting your loved one to the test and you will find out whether he is cheating on you or not. If you don’t wanna do this, and you feel insecure, do something that you think will make him think you want to leave. Hang out with some guy friends of yours. If he is scared that you are being unfaithful, then he really cares about you. I’ve done thins before, and it works. TRUST ME. he’ll never stay off again
Don’t worry about it. I had a dream about me and my boyfriend getting into a huge fight over cottage cheese. No big deal right? But it seems you don’t trust him very well. I have asked my boyfriend if he would ever cheat on me and he said he would never do that. And I believe him. If you had a feeling he did cheat before, look into it. Get onto the topic of it more often and see how he reacts. If he wants to spend his life with you that means that he cares more about your feelings than your body. He’ll do anything to make you happy. And he’d always do anything in his power to help your self-esteem. If your worried he’d cheat, set up a test for him with a friend. Have her flirt with him or something, but make sure he doesn’t know this friend, or else he won’t do it. But I wouldn’t recommend doing that, because if he finds out, he’d feel like you can’t trust him, and he can’t trust you.
1.)The dream thing means only what you want them to mean AKA your dream is controlled by you conscience.
2.) Means his beening Honest, Its not a yes its not a no. He probably really doesn’t know the answer.
3.) If you feel insecure about yourself dont take it out on him. Maybe he doesn’t complement you enough, or you just dont see the Beauty in you that he sees. you’re your own worst critic!
4.) mosty when ppl think some one is cheating, they probably are… But if you have no proof, no case. so i suggest you dont accuse him intil your sure enough.
5.) Do you feel used? if so then step back and ask your self: Do I need him more than he needs me? Is it worth beening hurt over if i need him more? If your the strong leg of a rocky table maybe you should tell him how you feel. Breaking up is hard to do, But breaking down is easy. So just think about whats more important… you? or some guy? There are good man out there for you you just have to find him ^-^ good luck!!!