Since i choose to stay for awhile with my cheating husband?
bу tһе way i сһοοѕе tο stay іח mу spouse until i save money.wһаt іѕ tһе best way tο revenge mу spouse.aside frοm חοt cooking аחԁ treating һіm аѕ іf hes חοt exist bυt i try tο bе polite еνеrу time i talk tο һіm.
i want tһе things tһаt wіƖƖ һυrt һіm tһаt һе didn’t know tһаt i wаѕ tһе one whose doing іt.
btw,i don’t want tο cheat ѕіחсе i һаνе moral аחԁ values tο myself.
thanks
Hämäläinen
You are in an unhealthy relationship. There’s no point in staying. I am sorry but I cannot provide you answers on how to get your revenge on your spouse.
Hongisto
In fact, you are just using him until you get money to leave. What is all the revenge crap.
Get a loan and leave. As it is, you are not much better than he has been.
Juva
Just be as nice as you can be, that will make him wonder, you don’t have to take revenge everything will take care of itself.
Haapakoski
place super glue in the locks of his car. (when it is locked)
Hentunen
You know the best way…be nice to him. Show him how much better of a person you are…make him miss you…make him sorry he hurt you and can never have you back. That will make him take answerability for him treating you so terribly.
It doesn’t mean you forgave him or will not leave…it just means he will know what a screw up he is and regret losing you.
NOT only that but, it will hurt him and you will feel fantastic consequential all the blame is on him.
Saara
Two wrongs don’t make it right..
You are justifying terrible choices which is incorrect.
Raahe
well that’s nice you have morals and values so consequently u would not cheat back but you want revenge, hun this makes no sense the best advice is to talk to ur spouse, about the circumstances if he refuses to admit his mistake and go on then that’s up to u do do the next best thing which is a split but lacking revenge is in the end screwing physically over, there’s several people whose gone to jail and endend up down-and-out since of this kind of circumstances, excellent luck!1
Saarinen
I’m sorry to hear about your circumstances but honestly the best thing you could do is reckon and care more about physically then him or what you can do to him. don’t be vendictive. don’t try to hurt him. he’s not off the hook dredge up there is a God and he works in inexplicable ways and i reckon treachery is certainly a no-no in his book
Heinonen
I agree with your first answerer, its never a excellent thought to seek revenge on anyone, its best that u end it for excellent, or u guys seek counselling if u are willing to work it out with him, but never ever a excellent reason to seek revenge hun!
Hasti
stop caring and stop using him for money until you can get out since that is just an excuse, 10 years from now you’ll be saying the same thing about saving money and he will still be cheating so if your miserable and cant live with him consequential he cheated and will probably do it again then find a way out now
Haajanen
revenge is pointless. if you want to leave so terrible just do it…you won’t do physically or him any favors by staying around cause money will surely always be tight by clinging to others. if you have morals and values then you know revenge isn’t the answer…moving away is.
Hentinen
It depends on what kind of cheating he did. Was it a full blown affair or was it that a name more compatible to him came in his life which in fact helped him ? Do not reckon of revenge , that will neither help him nor you. Instead if you can forgive him and pardon him , you can bring the lost glory in your matrimonial life back again.
Julia
Silent as kept ………….. you’re morals aren’t that high right now ……. seeing how much time you’re still willing to waste on him.
It doesn’t take as much energy to go on as it does to revenge him. When this puppy cheated you were hurt, what happens if your plot doesn’t go as plotted? You’ll be even worst off.
Let God handle that battle for you and spend your time taking care of the one person that he didn’t take care of ………… Physically!
p.s. If you really want to hurt him ………. Bounce Back!
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Hanno
Do whatever you have to do for physically until you have the funds & everything you need in order to just get away from him. Don’t cook. clean, do his laundry. Do everything just for physically as you see fit. I’m sure things w/come to you as time goes by, You are far too excellent for him to lower physically to his values, Come & go as you please, & you sure don’t owe him any explinations Just make sure you have taken everything into consideration & make sure you have everything you w/need before you leave. Write lists for physically if you have to as you sure don’t owe him whatever thing. All you have to leave by law is a table, chair, couple dishes & a place for him to sleep on. I feel just the tho’t of being alone, w/be punishment for him. You could place the word “cheater” in his drawers & in places he w/find them. Just take care of you, & get away from him as soon as you can so you don’t have to face him every day. OR you could do a exact about face & kill him w/kindness!!! That one would surely hurt…ALL the best to you…:)
Jäntti
The best revenge is living well!!!!
They will always wonder what if when you are living the excellent life…
All the other acts of “revenge” are really just ways to get your deep rage out.
You will be a better person living the excellent life!
Hanski
Girl, who don’t have to in fact cheat to show him how it feels and to delight in being paid even with him. You can make him reckon you are without even doing it. You know all the signs of a cheating spouse, use that information hostile to him.
Go to the movies with a friend or shopping and refuse to tell him where you have been. Act like you are hiding something. Be inexplicable and reserved. Best of all take a small week-end trip with a friend or alone. Don’t tell him who your friend is, just make up a woman’s name. If he starts asking you a lot of questions, blow him off and tell him to stop giving you the third degree. Like I said, be very reserved.
Then when you are ready to leave, tell him he just isn’t what you need in a man and you have found happiness somewhere else. If he question you if you have been cheating on him, just smile and laugh and say now you know we don’t have that kind of a relationship. What would make you reckon I would have any reason to make a fool out of you, by enjoying the companionship of a man who can satisfy all my needs? If he keeps pushing you for in rank, just tell him it’s over, accept it, I don’t like you and I don’t want you in my life.
Just let him reckon without admitting to whatever thing that you left him for another man. You know you didn’t, but it will piss him off and make him feel he wasn’t man enough for you and you found a name a lot better.
Hanko
The best and only revenge you should premeditated is after divorcing him, live a pleased and consequential life that is not filled with revenge and hatred.