Question for those of you who have had a cheating spouse?
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Wһаt wаѕ tһе first sign tһаt уουr spouse wаѕ cheating? Wһеח ԁіԁ уου first ѕtаrt suspecting іt?
Wһаt wаѕ tһе outcome?
Categories: Marriage & Divorce Tags: Cheating Spouse, Spouse Cheating
less concentration, more time away from home, don’t get invited to go along, more time at work, staying up later, or waking up before, always busy, more time on the phone or internet, or myspace, and it feels like you don’t even exist.
Inquiring, questioning, acting insecure in the relationship is very repellent and devalues you. Don’t look for cheating, act like you know you are too excellent for your guy to ever premeditated anyone else. Just let it be known that you have a zero tolerance policy for cheating.
Cheaters want to be caught. If he is cheating you will find out for sure or he will tell you. If you find this out, game over. Cheaters cheat, if you find your guy is cheating and stay you are just setting physically up to be cheated on again and again and to live in a state of distrust.
i started suspecting when he kept comeing home drunk…alot.
i know this doesnt sound right, but i when through his pants pockets and found girls phone numbers. and i found that he was buying and going through comdoms a lot more too and not using them with me.
the outcome, well. he was a very honest guy, so i tried asking him, but he denied it..so i questioned his acquaintances and they told me. obviously i when home and cried. i confronted him about it and he did tell me that he did cheat on me a few times. we went to counsoling for a few months and now everything is normal. he got tested for any diseases, and he is fine. we are still together and i still like him. it was since i loved him so much, i was able to forgive him for what he did.
Bracelets showing up at home said it was gifts for her help at work ,
then an insistence that going out for twilight meals with the boss until midnight, was necessary for work .
even his wife didn’t judge them.
I wish his wife would have liked me , but how if hes a millionaire and ime not
Money rules ime worried.
Secret phone calls, examination things about lunches together, hiding of the cell phone or maintenance it on him at all times. Then came the “I like you but I’m not in like with you” speech. 99% of the time when you hear that, they are cheating. Cheaters follow a script, which is sad since they reckon their affair and affair partner is so unique, but they are all the same.
She was gone more and she wouldn’t look into my eyes when she answered but the real thing is I reckon all has a “touch” when things aren’t right.If you will listen to it.Or maybe it’s just me but I have nearly always known when a name was not telling me the truth or when something terrible was about to happen.The conundrum is now and again I didn’t want to judge it.The result was split after over 20 years of being married.What ever your conundrum is I hope it works out for you.Excellent luck.
My ex was cheating with another woman before we parted ways. I never had a clue. Amusing thing was she left me for her and then lost her. It wasn’t so amusing any longer.
I started suspecting it when she was telling me dredge up when tales about times that I wasn’t there and her sister was remembering them too. Her sister was like, “yea I dredge up that, since it was about 3:30 in the after noon and Jerry was on and you guys were making out, so I went further than to smoke.” —Except I went to work at 2pm and didn’t get home until 11-1130
I just had this harassing touch in the back of my mind. Our sex life was fantastic we were married for 15 years but she would get a phone call and disappear and then at once delete text messages. That’s when I got suspicious, so I got this computer program “I AM BIG BROTHER” it does screen captures and saves every key stroke I found out she had 4 different email addresses, 2 my space pages and was exposure herself on an adult sex web site and meeting strangers for sex at hotels.
Obviously were divorced know, I have custody of our 3 kids and she is up north in TN. She only talks to her kids for about 1 min, once a month if even that. its pretty sad to her like that I honestly reckon she has a sex addiction. There were 12 guys in a 2 year period that I found out about so I’m sure there were more.