Is there anything I can do to be less paranoid about my boyfriend cheating?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, as far as I know he has never cheated on me and I have never cheated on him.
BUT, I guess i’m really insecure or something and I get very very paranoid whenever he goes out drinking and partying.
I think I have a right to be paranoid, but is there anything I can do to help our situation? I’m not sure if i trust him.
I want to trust him fully.
Saarinen
sit down and talk to him about. EVERY woman/man is going to be insecure if the other partner is going out without them. Maybe you should go out with him to the bar/clubs.
Hossi
spend more time with him instead of him going out. Also if hes going out go out with him even if it is all of his guy friends. You can also do the dirty thing to follow him around all night secretly
Hyyti
Hyv
Helena
Well, it will help you if you always know that “a person is going to do what a person wants to do”
Nobody’s relationship is ever going to be perfectly 100% secure and bulletproof from all situations..All you can do is always make sure you are the best partner he could ever ask for..Then it’s up to him to follow the golden rules and know what’s off limits.. No man wants a woman who is constantly insecure and always questioning his ever move [so don't show him when your feeling insecure, unless he gives you a reason too]
If your man was a “cheater” you would know it by now, you have been together for 1 1/2 years and so far he hasn’t done anything to make you think he wants someone else, so reward that good behavior by letting him know you trust him and appreciate what a great boyfriend he is…Best wishes…:)
Heli
Sorry but when alcohol and partying are involved, nobody can be trusted fully!!