Instead of watching porn, my husband likes to download profiles of naked women. Is that considered cheating?
Two years ago mу spouse cheated οח mе. Hіѕ affair lasted аbουt 10 months. I forgave һіm аחԁ рƖοttіחɡ everything wаѕ back tο normal wһеח I exposed tһаt һе һаѕ bееח downloading pics οf naked women wһеח I’m аt work. THIS IS NOT PORN, οחƖу profiles οf naked women. Now i feel ѕο insecure аbουt ουr relationship. SһουƖԁ I suspect һіm cheating again?
Hyvönen
yes
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Berg
once they’ve done it the second time around is much simpler and they wise up some.. i’d suspect something but with nothing to prove there’s not much to do except for the letting the sick man know he’s hurting you.. even tho it’s not physically cheating (yet) it’s emotional and his concentration is diverted there, which it should be towards you.. esp in that way
Jehkinen
if you told him you don’t like that and he is doing it then emotional cheating and physiological cheating you don’t really know what else is happening since you say it happened before and now you are thinking about it more often than if he wasn’t looking at those pictures.(excellent luck)
Josefiina
I reckon it’s downright creepy if you question me.
Raahe
its a form of cheating, it shows if he had half the chance he would prolly act on it!!!…its called LUST.
Huovi
yes, he’s cheating. Most of those types of sites have email addresses so the photo posters and their “fans” can converse. If he’s hiding it from you, it’s cheating. Plainly, he’d rather look at them than you. Sorry.
Holappa
hi unsecure
i reckon that men that do that stuff. is cheating in ther mind. let him no you found it and then see what his anser is since you deserve a anwer. only you can be the jouge of that.may be he has a fantisy you can fill for him.
excellent luck
~~JANELLE`~~
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Jarkko
Ok, I am probably going to get some thumbs down for this, but here it goes. Looking at naked pictures of women is pretty much porn. A lot of men, whether they admit it or not, look at some type of porn. Magazines, movies, pictures, whatever. I be with you that you are insecure about him cheating on you, but looking at naked pictures of women is not cheating. Probability are, he doesn’t even know these women he is looking at. So here is my inquiry for you. If one of your girlfriends came to you and said she had tickets to go see the “bark from down under” all male strip show, and wanted you to come, would you go? Be honest now.
I watch porn WITH my man now and again. I weigh 300 pounds, and have an 8 month ancient baby to boot. The girls on those movies don’t make me jealous. I mean, don’t get me incorrect, they are hotties, but they are just doing their job. Probability are, the women in the pictures your spouse looks at are just doing their job as well. They could probably have any man on the planet they wanted, but the probability of them lacking MY boyfriend, or YOUR spouse are slim to none you know what I mean? Don’t be mad about him looking at porn or pictures. It’s a worthless rage, and just added stress for you. Sometime, just for a minute or two, try looking at pictures with him, and maybe even point out a few you like. Who knows, it might be the extra kick your relationship needs.
Jukka
Once a name has cheated in a relationship, the level of touch should be raised and if this person is looking at nude photos this “might” point toward a conundrum. I say “might” since all men are natural voyeurs and look at nude women. Downloading nude pics of women is not cheating in itself, since cheating also requires intimate contact in addition to trick. As long as he doesn’t know these women in the photos and is not engaging in intimate contact with them, they remain simply a fantasy. Fantasies are normal, but jumping from fantasy to reality is not. Often, that is what happens with cheating. A person decides they want to pursue a fantasy behind their partner’s back.
The thing to watch is if he becomes fanatical with downloading these pics to the point of him dedicating too much time to doing it while amassing a huge pool. This could point toward that he has issues and needs to seek analysis.
Janne
you can install NetDog Porn Filter : on the computer, netdog blocks all porn quitely and automatically in the background when anyone’s on the computer.
Hietam
Hassi
Jesus said, “But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed treachery with her already in his heart.”
The King James Translation, (Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.
The answer to your inquiry is, “Yes. He is cheating.” All his energy and desire should be concentrated on you, but he’s divided.
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Holanti
If it has naked women on the internet, it’s porn dear. Sorry to say, but it is. And if it wasn’t porn, why do you care? But if you’re offended by it, talk to him about it, and if he doesn’t stop, time for some analysis!