I wrote a letter to wife about her cheating husband, should I send it?
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type up her name and add, make it look like its coming from a companionship is the only thing i can reckon of
Address it to her and send it registered mail. She will have to sign for it.
You should not do this. She probably already knows. It is evil. Revenge is always terrible Karma. And if she is truly innocuous, it is her you will hurt, not him. You can’t hurt him if he is already evil.
Can you add a small more. When you say he sexually abused you, are you underage? Was this your mom he was cheating with? What you tell us could change how I answer dramatically.
She has a right to know-but if you do this-you had
better be sure of your facts and not be over reacting
Since you are varying the world perpetually
for several people- one of which is very innocuous
The registered letter in her name-signature required
is best
P.S. How ancient are you? If he truly sexually abused you tell your mother or the police
Leave it alone. If he sexually abused you , He may be perilous. He will know it came from you and may come after you.
You need to concentrate on your on life issues. I feel that the only reason you want to tell her about the spouse cheating is since you want her to be as miserable as you are.
I know you are hurt, but probability are, she already knows…everything.
Well for starters, if you are going to send this letter to her, about her spouse, probability are she is going to confront her spouse, and show him the letter that you have sent. So if you don’t want him to know that it was you, either don’t send it, or send it with another name. Also, there is a chance that she might not judge you, and that may cause an issue with her spouse and you! Are you really willing to deal with that?
Yes. But make sure it is an indistinctive letter, of course. Just place her name and only her name on the envelope. To make sure she is the only one who gets the letter, you could leave it on the windshield of her car or slip it in the mail slot while she is at home. You could also have it addressed to her work.
I’d want to know if my spouse was cheating on me. But then again, by now, i’d probably already know.
I wouldn’t send the letter and I would report what he did to you to the police.
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Give it personally when you see that she’s alone…
Or if you don’t want see her, send it with some one else… I don’t know, a friend or messenger, but make sure that he delivered the letter in his hands… Maybe watching from afar…
What is your function ? Give her some hints of taking care of the Spouse. The circumstances is tender, it may give some odd result, which u didn’t expect,/in welfare of the wife.
If this man sexually abused you and you can prove it, go to the police and report him and have him arrested. If you cannot prove it, then write the letter, but send it to her at her work. If she doesn’t work, then I guess I’d send it to the house with her name on and send it “registered mail” so her signature is required to receive it. That way he can’t sign for it. But, he will get questioned about it and he’ll know you sent it. He may be abusing her, too.
if you have been sexually abused you should have reported it. dont let him get away with it.
You can address it plainly to her by her name. I know people may say don’t tell the wife since it’ll hurt her, but I’m talking from encounter here. I’ve been cheated on before, what hurt me the most was that I was with my ex for 3 years without consequential that he was cheating on me, he used to act it out so well. When I found out I was hurt to the point that I didn’t know what to do, but I was pleased and relieved that I found out. Finding out altered my life and I’m glad I’m not with him and I have went on, even if it took time to recover, I am pleased today and my new partner likes me. His wife would be hurt yes, but it will be for her own excellent. Wish you all the best.
Yes certainly send it. The wife should know. As for registered mail, I sent that once, paid extra money to a specific person in a companionship and they let just anyone open it. You should go directly to her and hand it to her. If I were you I would tell the police they will probe it, why did you even get close to a married man?
You don’t what the abuse is – that matters. If you are hurt that is one thing. You have no affair ruining this marriage. Keep your kickers up and mind your own affair.
I reckon that you need to personally give it to her. Tell her what has happened and that you felt she was vital enough to have the truth given to her. But be ready, at first she may dismiss you or even be mad. So do it with a loving heart and not out of malice or rage. Just tell her that you felt she had the right to know. I agree with another poster that carriage her the letter certified can be opened and signed by anyone. One thing I would take into consideration would be if the Guy is perilous?! If he is, maybe you shouldn’t go to her, you don’t wanna cause her or physically any harm. You might need to talk with a therapist or a trusted adult, to hash out the specifics on this dilema and what would be the best outcome for all parties involved. Best of luck.
Why a letter? Can you talk with her in person? what do you mean by sexually abused? are u under age? Ok, maybe Instead of writting a letter If I was you, I would try to make an appoinment with her to talk face to face. Also be careful if the spouse finds out who told her about it. Do you have a way to prove it? well, just be extremely careful you have to be convincing enough since I have seen and know women that won’t judge whatever thing that a name else would have to say about their hubbies. She may finished the friendship with you if you are not careful enough.