How do I catch my cheating boyfriend red-handed?
My boyfriend had been flirting with other women via sms and online dating. I caught him out four times. He apologized and told me he loved me and doesn’t want to loose me, but he flirts because he is bored at night!!??? I found an sms of another women on his cell saying that she should be alone after work when all the lights are out. What do you make of that…? How can I catch him? He is now deleting all messages off his cellphone – it is so obvious. Please advise.
Filppula
If you know he’s cheating why catch him? Why don’t you just leave him? You’re making yourself look dumb by staying with him even though you know what he’s doing behind your back. He’s going to keep doing it too because he knows he can get away with it.
Saijonmaa
Just dump the bum, you have already caught him 4 times how much more proof do you need.
Jussilainen
Sounds to me that you already have the answers you need
Borrow a friends car(one he won’t recognize) and follow him
Go on-line and get a detailed phone bill with a list of all incoming & outgoing calls
Cheaters slip up and get caught all on their own most of the time
Good luck hon.