Split

Its doable to pleased again yes, but probably 98% of the time the relationship ends. Even if not straight away, the lack of trust slowly erodes at your emotions and your feelings towards your partner. The questions you should question physically are:
What was his/her reason for cheating?
Do I reckon that is a valid reason?
What would I be thinking if I was in his/her shoes the moment before they cheated?
Why am I with this person If I cant even trust them?
Finally, look inside physically and question if you could ever be with a name who was willing to throw you away for a name else.

I wouldn’t.I couldn’t.I’d be gone before you could say split.
Even if I’ve never been married, I have been cheated on several different times by two men that claimed they loved me , wanted to marry me…blah ,blah blah.
boy am I glad I never married the fools!
some people, even if they must be far and few, can manage to pick up and continue on in a marrige wherein one has betrayed the other.
I always wondered about peoples reasons for marrying especially when they knew themselves enough to know they’d cheat on their spouse.
It would take a saint to handle living with a cheater.
i couldn’t do it and i’d have to bite my lip to not bring it up all the time.
Nope. Not me. I have no tolerance left.
Treachery is such a horrible, hideous thing to do.I could never do it to anyone.

If you are going to make this marriage a life sentence of punishment for him then you have not really forgiven him. It takes time but if you keep bringing it up in arguments there is no way to rebuild the relationship and trust. Go to analysis.

No you can never trust them again. You never stop thinking about it or bringing it up. The marriage does eventually break up anyways. People can be pleased after cheating and the spouse finds out – just not with the person that cheated on them. You know what they say “once a cheater, always a cheater”. Something to reckon about…if you had not found out about the cheating – how long would it have gone on?

since i’ve been a victim of this for 16 years i can vouch for the
unfair advantage and no excellent come of it answer,…….he gets all the concentration he wants from anyone he chooses and i get nothing,from him but whats left and that is not much, but hurt, misery and pain, so all the definitions are assess,..
and he can’t be with you why i’m so halfhearted and mean as he puts it,..my needs are never met.. he’s to busy trying to please his new mates so why should he bother fixing his mess he made of us…

“How do you stop her from cheating?” Leave her! She’ll stop cheating….”on you”.

I would email the emotionally involved new guy with this terrible a$$ picture of you and say leave her alone or your cruisen for a bruisen!
Okay
It’s incredible how FAST people on here say split. It makes me sick. They are just weak minded fools. Yes split may be in the future but it may not. I would find out the reason first but I wouldn’t take any $hit either. There could be a reason behind it that they can work out. Either way I may still have to pay Mr. emotional a small visit.

Its just a word with two different meanings like umm? Punch? It can be a drink as well as a hit with your fist! Know what i mean?